Answer These Difficult Love Questions and We'll Guess Your Personality Type
By: Emily Maggrett
9 min
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About This Quiz
What would you do if your partner wanted to have a three-person relationship with you and your best friend? How would you react if your parents told you that they didn't want to see you until you got rid of your spouse? If you found out your ailing partner cheated on you before they became ill, would you dump them or stick by their side?
The way you'd answer these difficult love questions reveals what your core personality values actually are. Those who prize loyalty above all are water personality types, who hold onto relationships even after they've become toxic. More fickle people fall into the fire personality camp. They're far too active to stay in a bad situation for long. Air personality types are more detached than the other three, meaning they're more flexible but also more unpredictable. And earth personality types stay grounded even in the most complicated situations since their innate practicality can't be shattered by any emotion — not even love.
Do you want to know which personality type you have? Then it's time to take a ride on this quiz! We're going to ask you some truly challenging love questions, so we can gauge who you really are when the chips are down. Think you can handle it? Let's dive in!
Let's say your partner's uncle just lost his job. Now he wants to move in with you ... for six months. Your partner is eager for this to happen. Do you agree?
"Please ask Uncle Bob to make different arrangements. This wouldn't be good for our relationship."
"Yeah sure ... on a trial basis."
"Ooh. Er. Can't we just lend him money so he can rent a room?"
Let's say you're 90 years old and you've never experienced real romantic love. You've been with your dull husband for 70 years. Do you dump him so you can date or stay with him out of loyalty?
I'd stay. Dating at 90 sounds hard.
I'd dump him! There's a whole world out there, and it's waiting for ME!
I'd ask him if he cared if I started dating.
I'd stay with my husband but have a passionate emotional affair with someone else. The drama!
Imagine your new partner has a cat who wanders around screaming constantly. They've asked you to "get used to it," but the cat is disturbing your sleep. What's your move?
I'd never sleep at their house again.
I'd ... just dump them?
I'd buy ear plugs.
I'd become so obsessed with the cat that I didn't care.
A mysterious stranger says they knew you in a past life. Because of that, they'll pay you a thousand dollars to go on just one date with them. Do you say yes?
No. Sounds like they're a murderer.
Yeah! I want a thousand bucks!
Yes. I'm curious to find out whether we DID know each other in a past life.
They are my past-life love and we're soulmates, y'all.
At dinner with your bae, they wouldn't stop taking bites off your plate, so you playfully took a huge bite of their entree. Now they're furious. Who's right?
I am, but it doesn't matter. I shouldn't have fought fire with fire.
I am, and they need to acknowledge it!
I am intellectually right, they are emotionally right.
Pretend you've been dating someone for five years. Everything is going well, then one day they announce that they don't want to be with you unless you get a better job. Would you change for them?
Um, nope. Not unless I had a similar ambition.
No dude. I'm so out!
Maybe I should take another look at my career trajectory. Is it where I want it to be?
I can't lose my love, so I guess I'm calling a temp agency tomorrow.
You have a crush on your boss that you thought was one-sided. Then, last night, they texted you that they have serious feels ... and they know you have them too! How do you respond?
"I like you too, but I just don't want to pursue this while we're working at the same company."
"Meet me at the Hotel Alexander bar in 20 minutes."
"Aaaaa, how did this happen?"
"This is our destiny. Can't wait to tell our colleagues!"
One potential love interest has a dangerous job with long hours. The other has a more normal job, but they seem to have many secrets. Which one do you date?
Neither, ugh!
The normal person with lots of secrets. Sound fun.
The one with a dangerous job with long hours. I can't help but respect that.
I'd choose the one who was more in love with me. That's the only answer.
You're thinking of settling down with someone, but there's one problem — they embarrass you in public because of their atrocious social skills. In short: stay or go?
Stay. But only because I'm an introvert who hates going out.
Go, go, go! I don't want to be humiliated.
Go. My social skills are bad enough; I don't need a partner who makes me look bad.
You and your partner adopted a puppy (at your partner's request). Now you're the one stuck walking the pup and cleaning up after it. How do you handle this sitch?
I'd go on strike.
I'd yell at my partner.
I'd ask my partner whether they thought the situation was fair, and if not, how it should change.
Last summer, you started dating someone great. They're gorgeous, smart and compassionate. The only problem? They weep ... all the time. Is that a deal-breaker?
Yeah. Nobody likes a mope!
Yeah. I mean, get it together.
Not necessarily. They sound like a good catch otherwise.