Are You a Little in Love, Very Much in Love or Not in Love at All?

By: Lauren Lubas
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
Are You a Little in Love, Very Much in Love or Not in Love at All?
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About This Quiz

Relationships take a lot of work, and being in love is a whole new level of work that many are not used to. This is because love is an intense emotion that makes you feel strong, even if you don't realize that you're completely weak and vulnerable. This vulnerability makes a lot of people uncomfortable, but if the love is returned, that discomfort seems to fade. Whether you've just started a relationship or you've been in a relationship for years (or somewhere in between), you may be thinking about how you actually feel for your significant other. Don't worry, this questioning is very normal at nearly every stage of the relationship. Luckily, there are a lot of ways that you can figure out just how in love you are with your partner (if at all). 

Remember that love is basically looking at the little things having big meanings to you and your partner. While you may have looked into you and your partner's love languages, there are a few other things that you can focus on, like how you interact with one another, how you work through the big stuff and how you appreciate the small stuff. If you're still wondering how in love you are, answer these questions, and we'll let you know.


Have you ever lied to the person you're thinking of?
Two or three times
Never
All the time
Yes, but they didn't find out.

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How often do you think of the other person while they are at work?
Once an hour
Whenever we text (and we text all the time)
Once or twice a shift
Whenever I'm mad

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Would you ever get mad if they hung out with friends (without you)?
Only if it becomes excessive
Only if it is on a special day for us
Yes, I think it's rude.
No, I don't care at all.

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If this person buys you an expensive gift that you don't like, what do you do?
Tell them I love it
Thank them, and tell them I don't like it.
Tell them how stupid they are
Get really disappointed

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Do you get worried that they will cheat on you?
Only when they go out without me
Very rarely, but yes
Every second of every day
No, not at all

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Would you ever cheat on this person?
I've thought about others, but never acted.
No, never.
Yes, but we weren't really dating then.
Yes, all the time.

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What is the most important thing in your relationship?
Being together
Telling the truth
Being nice to each other
Getting things over with

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If this person had to move for work, would you follow?
I'd have to think about it
Yes, there is no question.
It depends on how far
No way!

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What is the one thing your relationship is missing?
Alone time
Nothing we can't get together
Romance
Gifts

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How often do you two fight with each other?
Never, because we love each other
Every once in a while
Never, we're both too passive.
Every day

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Do you think the two of you make a good team?
Most of the time
Yes, we work together.
No, we're complete opposites.
No, but other people seem to think that.

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When you two argue, how heated does it get?
A little heated
I would say a 6 out of 10.
Very heated
It gets really bad.

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Have you met their family?
Yes, they are wonderful!
Yes, I get along with most of them!
No, and I don't want to.
No, but I will soon.

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How often do you two make love?
Seven times a week
Three or four times a week
Over seven times a week
Never

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Which of these is most important to you?
Laughing
Honesty
Lovemaking
Money

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Have you ever traveled with this person?
Yes, and we fought a lot.
Yes, and it was amazing.
No, but we might.
No, and I never would.

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Do you get frustrated when they cancel plans?
Yes, very
Only sometimes
I'm usually the one who cancels plans.
Never

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What would you do if this person wanted to buy a dog and you didn't?
Ask them if it can wait
Talk to them about alternatives
Absolutely refuse to let it happen
Who doesn't want a dog?

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If you and your significant other were out and their ex was at the bar, what would you do?
Introduce myself to the ex
Ignore the ex
Force my SO to leave with me
Ask questions about the ex

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What do you two do for fun?
Go to dinner
Hang out at home
Make love
Nothing

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Would you believe them if they told you that they loved you?
Most of the time
Yes, I trust them.
No, they only say it when they messed up.
Sometimes, but I still think they're cheating on me.

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When you're out with this person, do you actually have fun?
Yes, all the time
Yes, I appreciate going out.
Yes, until we start fighting
Not really, we prefer to be at home.

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What annoys you the most about this person?
They get clingy.
They are messy.
Pretty much everything
Nothing, really

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When you are mad at them, what do you do?
Try to get over it
Tell them I'm mad
Yell at them
Never tell them

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If this person's mother hated you, what would you do?
Never visit her again
Let my SO know how I feel about it
I would never meet my SO's mother.
Tell my SO she is a witch

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Do you think you'll marry this person?
I hope so.
I already did.
I don't believe in marriage.
Absolutely not

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Have you ever wanted to never talk to this person again?
No, but I was close.
No, not at all
Yes, we've broken up before.
Yes, we get into arguments a lot.

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If they were mad at you and stormed out of the room, what would you do?
Text them and apologize
Let them cool off
Call one of my other opportunities
Post on social media about them

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Are you two competitive with each other?
No, we try to be kind to each other.
Yes, but it's a fun competition.
Yes, and we fight about it.
Yes, and we are shady about it.

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Does this person buy you good presents?
They try
Always
We don't do presents.
Never

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