Relationships take a lot of work, and being in love is a whole new level of work that many are not used to. This is because love is an intense emotion that makes you feel strong, even if you don't realize that you're completely weak and vulnerable. This vulnerability makes a lot of people uncomfortable, but if the love is returned, that discomfort seems to fade. Whether you've just started a relationship or you've been in a relationship for years (or somewhere in between), you may be thinking about how you actually feel for your significant other. Don't worry, this questioning is very normal at nearly every stage of the relationship. Luckily, there are a lot of ways that you can figure out just how in love you are with your partner (if at all).
Remember that love is basically looking at the little things having big meanings to you and your partner. While you may have looked into you and your partner's love languages, there are a few other things that you can focus on, like how you interact with one another, how you work through the big stuff and how you appreciate the small stuff. If you're still wondering how in love you are, answer these questions, and we'll let you know.