Can We Guess What Turns You On?

By: Isadora Teich
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
Can We Guess What Turns You On?
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About This Quiz

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Ready to find out what really turns you on? Take our fun quiz to discover what traits in others speak to your romantic soul. Whether it's a deep connection or a spark that lights your fire, we're here to suss it out!

Do you have a type? Are there certain qualities that all the people you fall for have in common? Beyond physical features, there's a deeper level of attraction that can be hard to define. Let's dive deep into what truly turns you on about others with this exciting quiz!

Let's go beyond skin deep and see if we can guess what traits in others really get your heart racing. Take the what turns me on quiz now and let's find out what lights your fire in love and relationships! Get ready for some fun and maybe a surprise or two along the way!

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Which language of love speaks to you most?
Words
Gifts
Quality time
Physical touch
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How do you feel about Valentine's Day?
It's dumb.
I enjoy it.
It's ok.
It's my favorite holiday.
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For you, dating is mostly:
To find a relationship
For fun
Not a priority
To find my soul mate

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How does spending a quiet night in reading different books with your partner sound?
AMAZING
Boring
A good occasional activity
I'd rather we do something together.
How do you feel about men covering the bill while on dates with women?
Statistically, men often make much more than women, so it makes sense.
Men and women should split things equally always.
It shouldn't be assumed without discussion.
It's traditional, so I prefer it.
How heavily tattooed would you prefer your ideal partner to be?
A few is fine.
Anywhere but the face is fine.
Heavily
No tattoos at all

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Which of these things do you notice about a person first?
Their clothes
Their face
Their energy
Their eyes
Do you prefer to date someone who is into nerd culture?
It's a must.
I don't have an opinion.
I would rather not.
It depends on if we share interests or not.
Do you use dating apps?
No, but I would.
Yes
I used to, but not anymore.
No, and I don't want to.

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Do you like to read romance novels?
I hate them.
I have never read any, but might.
I don't care about them.
I love them!
Which element resonates with you more?
Earth
Fire
Air
Water
Which of these things is the biggest turn off for you?
Someone not knowing what they are talking about at all
Too much self-deprecating humor
Desperateness
Coldness

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What kind of gift would you rather receive?
Practical
Spontaneous
Unique
Super romantic
If you came home to find that your partner spontaneously filled your bedroom with rose petals, how would you react?
Annoyed, because it would be a pain to clean up.
Turned on by the bold gesture
I wouldn't be into someone who does things like that.
So happy I could cry
Is it important to you that your partner matches or exceeds your education level?
Very
Somewhat
Not very
Not at all

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Do you believe in love at first sight?
No, people are too complex for that.
I think it can happen, but it's rare.
I think it's just infatuation.
Of course!
Which activity would you rather do with a partner?
Go to a museum
Rock climb
A weekend away in the woods
Ballroom dancing
Would you ever date someone who was challenging?
Never
Maybe
I prefer that.
If I loved them, yes.

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Do you like to argue?
I like to have intelligent debates.
Not really, but I will if I need to.
Arguing turns me on.
No, I would rather avoid it.
Would you be comfortable with someone telling you that they love you on a first date?
Absolutely not
Maybe
Probably not
Yes! When you know, you know.
Which is a big deal breaker for you?
No ambition
Self-loathing
Moving too fast
Not romantic

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Is getting married important to you?
It's not that important, but I'm not against it either.
Maybe
I don't ever want to be married.
Definitely
How important is it to you that your partner dresses well?
It's a must.
A little effort is necessary.
It's not very important to me.
I do not care at all.
If your partner acts jealous, what would you think of that?
They are making their hangups your problem.
They are lacking in confidence.
That's hot.
They must really love you.

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How deep do you want to get with another person on a first date?
Maintaining some social boundaries is appropriate.
As deep as we both feel comfortable.
Not too much, I like some mystery.
I want to know everything about them.
Is it important to you that someone can make you laugh?
It's very important.
It's nice, but not a must.
Not really
Not at all
Does your partner need to share your political views?
If they don't, there won't be a second date.
We need to agree on some core things.
No, I think choosing partners based on their politics is dumb.
No, I don't care about politics.

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If your friends didn't like your partner, how would you react?
If it's for good reasons, I would leave them.
Keep seeing them, but not bring them around my friends anymore
Consider leaving them
Stop talking to my friends
What would you rather your partner do for you?
Teach me something new
Give me a massage
Take me to an escape room
Cook me a romantic dinner
Has a partner ever found your tastes in bed too weird or rough?
Yes
A few times
Occasionally
Never

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