Can We Guess What Turns You On?

By: Isadora Teich
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
Can We Guess What Turns You On?
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About This Quiz

Sometimes you meet someone, and you feel such a deep and passionate instant connection that you almost can't believe it. However, on other occasions, the exact opposite happens. While some of us have a type, it can sometimes be difficult to predict what exactly it is about another person that can light that spark. Do you think that we can figure out what lights your fire?     

Maybe we can figure out what turns you on most about other people with this quiz? What's your type? And do all the people you fall for have something (or a few somethings) interesting in common? If they do, maybe we can suss it out. Beyond hair color, eye color, and other physical features is a deep level of attraction that can be based on things which are harder to define. After all, sometimes you just feel it, and other times you just do not. The heart can be a very tricky thing to predict, but that isn't going to stop us from giving it our very best shot! 

We are going to go way beyond skin deep and try to guess what traits in others truly speak to your romantic soul with this quiz! 

Which language of love speaks to you most?
Words
Gifts
Quality time
Physical touch

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How do you feel about Valentine's Day?
It's dumb.
I enjoy it.
It's ok.
It's my favorite holiday.

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For you, dating is mostly:
To find a relationship
For fun
Not a priority
To find my soul mate

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How does spending a quiet night in reading different books with your partner sound?
AMAZING
Boring
A good occasional activity
I'd rather we do something together.

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How do you feel about men covering the bill while on dates with women?
Statistically, men often make much more than women, so it makes sense.
Men and women should split things equally always.
It shouldn't be assumed without discussion.
It's traditional, so I prefer it.

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How heavily tattooed would you prefer your ideal partner to be?
A few is fine.
Anywhere but the face is fine.
Heavily
No tattoos at all

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Which of these things do you notice about a person first?
Their clothes
Their face
Their energy
Their eyes

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Do you prefer to date someone who is into nerd culture?
It's a must.
I don't have an opinion.
I would rather not.
It depends on if we share interests or not.

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Do you use dating apps?
No, but I would.
Yes
I used to, but not anymore.
No, and I don't want to.

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Do you like to read romance novels?
I hate them.
I have never read any, but might.
I don't care about them.
I love them!

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Which element resonates with you more?
Earth
Fire
Air
Water

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Which of these things is the biggest turn off for you?
Someone not knowing what they are talking about at all
Too much self-deprecating humor
Desperateness
Coldness

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What kind of gift would you rather receive?
Practical
Spontaneous
Unique
Super romantic

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If you came home to find that your partner spontaneously filled your bedroom with rose petals, how would you react?
Annoyed, because it would be a pain to clean up.
Turned on by the bold gesture
I wouldn't be into someone who does things like that.
So happy I could cry

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Is it important to you that your partner matches or exceeds your education level?
Very
Somewhat
Not very
Not at all

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Do you believe in love at first sight?
No, people are too complex for that.
I think it can happen, but it's rare.
I think it's just infatuation.
Of course!

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Which activity would you rather do with a partner?
Go to a museum
Rock climb
A weekend away in the woods
Ballroom dancing

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Would you ever date someone who was challenging?
Never
Maybe
I prefer that.
If I loved them, yes.

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Do you like to argue?
I like to have intelligent debates.
Not really, but I will if I need to.
Arguing turns me on.
No, I would rather avoid it.

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Would you be comfortable with someone telling you that they love you on a first date?
Absolutely not
Maybe
Probably not
Yes! When you know, you know.

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Which is a big deal breaker for you?
No ambition
Self-loathing
Moving too fast
Not romantic

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Is getting married important to you?
It's not that important, but I'm not against it either.
Maybe
I don't ever want to be married.
Definitely

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How important is it to you that your partner dresses well?
It's a must.
A little effort is necessary.
It's not very important to me.
I do not care at all.

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If your partner acts jealous, what would you think of that?
They are making their hangups your problem.
They are lacking in confidence.
That's hot.
They must really love you.

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How deep do you want to get with another person on a first date?
Maintaining some social boundaries is appropriate.
As deep as we both feel comfortable.
Not too much, I like some mystery.
I want to know everything about them.

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Is it important to you that someone can make you laugh?
It's very important.
It's nice, but not a must.
Not really
Not at all

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Does your partner need to share your political views?
If they don't, there won't be a second date.
We need to agree on some core things.
No, I think choosing partners based on their politics is dumb.
No, I don't care about politics.

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If your friends didn't like your partner, how would you react?
If it's for good reasons, I would leave them.
Keep seeing them, but not bring them around my friends anymore
Consider leaving them
Stop talking to my friends

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What would you rather your partner do for you?
Teach me something new
Give me a massage
Take me to an escape room
Cook me a romantic dinner

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Has a partner ever found your tastes in bed too weird or rough?
Yes
A few times
Occasionally
Never

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