Do I Love Him?

By: Ian Fortey
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
Do I Love Him?
Image: Photo by Supoj Buranaprapapong/Moment/GettyImages

About This Quiz

Every person will face some big momentous existential questions in their lives at some point. We're only on this Earth for so many years, so we need to make the most of it. The problem is that life doesn't come with a handbook. No one knows how to live in the "right" way. We just do the best we can and wing it for the most part. We rely on our thoughts and our feelings to guide us in the right direction as best they can. This becomes an issue only when we're not sure what the heck our feelings are telling us.

Unfortunately, no feeling is more confusing, more distracting, and more nerve-racking than love when you're not sure if you're really feeling it or not. Love can easily be confused with lust and infatuation. Or it can be mixed in with shame, or sadness, or even hate because your relationship is complicated and tough to deal with. Knowing if you truly love someone is not nearly as cut and dry as it sounds.

So you have a guy in your life right now, and you're just not sure if what you're feeling is true love. It happens! But if you want to get it figured out, then you've come to the right place. Take the quiz, and let's get to the root of those feelings.

When you wake up in the morning, how much time is going to pass before you talk to him?
Seconds
Not very long
I guess it depends on the day.
I'll get to it when I get to it.

Advertisement

Any chance the two of you have ever put on a couple's Halloween costume?
Every year
No, but I want to.
Not for a long time
I wouldn't do that.

Advertisement

Is it easy to imagine spending the rest of your life with him?
Definitely
I think so.
Easy? I wouldn't say that.
I don't imagine that.

Advertisement

Do your friends think he's a good guy?
My friends love him.
They don't know him that well, but they like him.
Sort of
My friends kind of hate him.

Advertisement

If it's just a quiet Sunday afternoon, can the two of you just sit in a room together and do whatever?
Yes
We're always doing something together.
That sounds awkward.
Not really

Advertisement

Do you go out with him or with your friends more often?
Him
It's kind of even.
It depends on my mood.
Friends

Advertisement

Does he try to act chivalrous and open doors for you?
All the time
Usually
Sometimes
I can open my own doors.

Advertisement

Do you think he's ever cheated on you?
Of course not
We haven't even been together that long.
I hope not, but I don't know.
I know he has.

Advertisement

Have you ever cheated on him?
I would never!
No
I've thought about it.
Yes, I have.

Advertisement

Has he ever surprised you with a home-cooked meal?
Yes, and it was pretty good.
Not yet
A long time ago
No

Advertisement

Do the two of you do things together like chores?
Of course
I guess we'll clean up after dinner together or something like that.
Not often
No, he doesn't do that sort of thing.

Advertisement

How long have you known each other?
Over a year
Not a very long time
Years
Too long

Advertisement

What attracted you to him in the first place?
His personality
Everything
His body
I can't remember.

Advertisement

What do you think is his most annoying habit?
I don't think he has any.
Nothing I've noticed yet
He can be mean.
Just one?

Advertisement

Would you consider owning a pet with him?
We have one!
Yes, I'd love to do that.
Seems like too much stress right now.
No

Advertisement

How much time do you spend together in the average day anyway?
Pretty much all day
More than eight hours
Depends on the day, really.
Not that much time

Advertisement

When you see each other for the first time in a day, how do you greet one another?
A kiss
"Hello" or "good morning" or whatever
Maybe a kiss if we're both in a good mood
Probably with something like "hey"

Advertisement

How many texts do you send him in a day?
Sooo many
A few dozen at least
Depends on what I need to say.
We don't text much.

Advertisement

Do you ever get jealous of how much time he spends with his friends?
We all usually hang out together.
No
Yes
I couldn't care less.

Advertisement

Is he a gamer?
Not in any major way
Not really
Yes
I guess.

Advertisement

When you get in a relationship with someone, it usually means dealing with family, too. What's his family like?
The best
I don't know them so well.
It depends on which family member you're talking about.
Ugh

Advertisement

What vacation do you think would be best for the two of you?
Paris
Rome
Las Vegas
I don't think I could handle a vacation.

Advertisement

How often do you argue about what to watch on TV?
We like the same shows.
Never
About 50% of the time
I'll just leave the room.

Advertisement

You need to eat every day of your life. Is he a good cook?
The best
I haven't tried much of his cooking.
He can cook a few things really well.
He's a disaster in the kitchen.

Advertisement

Does he spend much time trying to be manly?
He doesn't have to try.
Not that I've noticed
More than he should
He tries and fails.

Advertisement

Does he act aggressively towards other guys sometimes?
Not really
I don't think so.
Yes
Yeah, he can fly off the handle sometimes.

Advertisement

Is he the jealous type?
No
I don't know.
He can be.
Oh, yeah.

Advertisement

Do you trust him to get things done when they need to get done?
Definitely
I think so.
Not always
He's super unreliable.

Advertisement

That you know of, has he ever lied to you?
I certainly hope not.
No
Yes
Too many times

Advertisement

Is he a flirt?
I wouldn't say that.
With me he is.
He sure is.
More than he should be

Advertisement

You Got: