1. Your guest is not appropriately attired.
   There is a hole in your sock, which is hidden by your slacks.
2. You are drinking coffee, not a cappuccino.
   You are holding a bouquet of flowers.

You are not solely responsible for yourself; if you bring a guest, he or she also must also be appropriately attired. It reflects badly on you if you have not instructed your guest on the dress policies of the club.

1. A) T-shirts
   B) Casually elegant
2. C) Cargo shorts and pants
   D) A & C

Ever wondered what "casually elegant" means? It means dresses, slack suits or skirts with an appropriate blouse and shoes for women. And for men, it includes sports jackets, collared long-sleeve shirts, mock turtlenecks (not T-shirts), dress slacks and appropriate shoes.

1. A) Capris
   B) Collared short-sleeve shirt
2. C) Cocktail dress
   D) A & B

Similar to elegant casual, but a small step down in the type of fabric and style. This is appropriate wear before changing into your golf or swimming attire.

1. Allow the player to complete the drive before you approach the tee.
   Yell "fore!" if you don't feel like waiting for the players to clear your driving path.
2. Take as much time as needed to select your club once you're at the tee.
   Ask others where the tee should be placed.

Crowding someone at the tee is not in good taste. Nor is asking others where the tee should be placed. It's courteous to take as little time as possible once you're on the tee.

1. Don't wear perfume ever. People have allergies.
   If you can still smell your perfume by the end of the evening you've worn too much.
2. Only wear it on your neck, not wrists.
   Only wear it behind your ears.

People want to be able to smell their food, and not smell you as you walk by. Perfume is for those who come close to speak or embrace to get a pleasant scent. Not be overpowered by your particular perfume.

1. Diapered children without “leak-proof” swimwear
   Open-toe sandals
2. Cover-ups
   All of the above

Children need to be leak-proof. And quiet. No running and no screaming around the pool. They are expected to act like little adults.

1. Nothing, let the waiter take it away.
   Ask for a doggy bag
2. Ask if you can take some of the rolls and put it in your doggy bag
   None of the above

You're not required to eat everything on your plate. But if it's a business meeting, no doggy bags allowed. From the continued smell of the food to people making accommodations for your leftovers to be stored in a refrigerator, you are imposing on others by requesting a doggy bag.

1. Pass the salt and pepper together, even if only one is requested.
   Be sure to taste the food before putting salt or pepper on it.
2. The pepper shaker is on the left and the salt on the right.
   All of the above

People always look for the salt and pepper together on the table, don't have pepper at one end the table and salt at the other, so pass them together. Also, keep the pepper on the left of the salt when passing and replacing on the table. And if you know what's good for you, don't offend your host by adding salt or pepper to the food before tasting it.

1. A) When the food is served to you
   B) When the food is served to everyone
2. C) When the hostess begins eating.
   D) B & C

If you’re seated at a table with eight or fewer guests, wait until everyone is served and for the hostess to begin eating before you start to eat.

1. Cocktail dress
   Suit or jacket with tie
2. Evening gown
   All of the above

Now you're dressing like you own the place. Remember, no loud jewelry or obnoxious patterns and you'll be well respected.

1. When you see the green flag
   When you see the yellow flag
2. When you see the red flag
   When you need a break from playing

Many country clubs have rangers who use a flag system. A green flag means the pace is good. A yellow flag means you should let others play through. However, if you get a red flag, you need to pick up your ball and follow the ranger.

1. Laughing loudly
   Talking loudly
2. Staring
   All of the above

All of these behaviors are disrespectful to other dinners who wish to have conversations and don't want to raise their voices over yours to be heard. Also staring is insulting.

1. Black-soled shoes
   Jogging shoes
2. Tennis shoes
   Sandals

Since black-soled shoes leave skid marks, and many clubs require you to wear actual tennis shoes, don't take along your cross trainers. Buy actual tennis shoes, and you'll be welcomed to the club.

1. Hit your shot when ready and it is safe to do so.
   At the tee, the shortest hitters should play first.
2. When you have reached your stroke limit, pick up you ball and continue to the next hole.
   All of the above

One of the most frustrating things is to wait for a slow group to finish, hole after hole. If you're in the zone, you will probably lose it as you wait. To make all players happy be aware of your pace.

1. Make sure no one sees you
   Replace the divot or fill it with sand
2. Leave as is, that happens sometimes when you golf
   None of the above

Fairways have neat grass and repaired divot holes so the balls can roll or have a normal bounce. You must replace the divot or fill it with sand.

1. Wait for the conversation to be over, then head to the booth together.
   Let them have a private conversation and head to the booth. She'll catch up.
2. Introduce yourself.
   None of the above

If you’re with someone and your companion greets a person you don’t know, you should also greet them. It shows you are sociable and friendly.

1. It shows the cell phone is more important than the company.
   It shows you are addicted to checking your messages.
2. It shows you are addicted to checking all the social media platforms.
   It shows you are addicted to playing Angry Birds.

Although you may be addicted to Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, playing video games and checking messages, don’t put your phone on the restaurant table. By doing so, you show how unimportant the dinner conversation is to you.

1. Tuxedo
   Jeans
2. Golf attire
   Open collar shirt, no tie

You don't need the top hat and cane, but for a formal occasion, a tuxedo is the perfect fit. Add interesting cuff links to set off your dapper look. Plus they can be a good conversation starter.

1. Don't squeeze it. It is already flavoring your drink by being in the ice tea.
   Don't scoop the lemon out of your drink with your fingers, use a fork.
2. Use your hand to shield your lemon as you squeeze it into your ice tea.
   Smash the lemon to the side of the glass with a knife to juice the lemon.

Use your hand to shield your lemon as you squeeze it into your iced tea, so you don’t squirt your dining companion in the eye. Although it is more polite to spear it with a fork, it's more important to use the other hand to shield your companion.

1. Halters
   Strapless sun tops
2. Bare-midriff shirts
   Golf shorts

The idea here is no unnecessary showing of skin. If you keep that rule of thumb in mind, you'll be dressed appropriately. For all shorts and skirts keep it mid-thigh or longer.

1. Fishnet tops
   Short-shorts
2. Spandex
   None of the above

Attire rules are not relaxed even at the driving range. Keep it cool but keep it covered. Denim and athletic shorts are also looked down upon.

1. Fork and knife are vertical on the plate.
   Knife tip and fork tines at 12 o'clock on the plate with the handles at 4 o'clock and 8 o'clock respectively.
2. The fork is vertical, and the knife is horizontal on the plate.
   The fork

All of these are positions that tell the waiter information. Option A says your plate can be cleared, you are finished eating. Option B says you are still eating. Option C means you are expecting another course.

1. Hats must be facing forward.
   No cargo shorts or pants
2. No denim
   All of the above

There are more attire rules wherever you go, the golf course, driving range, pool and tennis courts. Be sure you know what's what, before your start playing.

1. Raise your voice and let that person know you don't appreciate his or her opinion.
   Punch the person in the face.
2. Tell the maitre d' the person is insulting you.
   Leave the ill-mannered company.

If someone offends you, you shouldn’t insult them back or raise your voice to the person who insulted you. Don’t sink to their level. Just leave the ill-mannered company. That says it all.

1. Yes
2. No

If you salt your food while your dining companion looks on, or others are waiting to pass it along to the person requesting salt, you will look greedy and rude. And you surely don't want that.

1. Yes, if you come from the pool.
2. No, follow the "keep cool, but keep covered" rule.

No male (or female) can play bare-chested. Most likely at your country club, clothing such as muscle shirts, running shorts, jean shorts or bathing suits are not permitted as well.

1. Each cart is limited to two bags and two persons.
   Golf carts must be kept at least 10 yards (10 steps) away from tees, greens and ponds.
2. Golf carts are not permitted on the sidewalks.
   All of the above

Golf has many different rules of etiquette and this is just for golf carts! There are rules about crossing in front of a shot and teeing off as well.

1. Religion
   Politics
2. Family quarrels
   All of the above

No reason to air dirty laundry in public. You should also never bring up politics or religion due to the controversial and heated nature of the topics.

1. Sure, why not?
2. No, definitely not.

Never pay a visit without calling first. Even if the person always tells you to come by anytime, you should still call first. It's called good manners.

1. A) Don't make noise while your playing partners are putting.
   B) Return your cart while awaiting your final putt.
2. C) Keep your feet off the line of your playing partners’ putts.
   D) A & C

These aren't the only unspoken rules when putting. Be sure you make a good impression by moving off the green and to the next hole quickly. Then you can write down the strokes for the previous hole.

1. So, how much did you pay for that yacht?
   I heard your son was expelled from school.
2. If it rains anymore, we'll have to buy waders to get around.
   How many gifts did you get from your wedding?

Good conversation starters are the weather, interests or hobbies of the person you're talking to or hobbies of that person's family. Sports teams can be a topic of conversation but it's best to know the team loyalties of your dinner partners before conversing.

1. A) Bunkers
   B) Ponds
2. C) The rough
   D) A & B

Bunkers, ponds, pond edges, sand traps and other areas designated by red stakes are hazards. The good news is that you may hit your ball from any of these areas – if you can find it and it’s hittable – without penalty.

1. If the food is good there
   If you can wear spiked golf shoes
2. If you can go swimming after golfing
   If you can play tennis in your golf attire

Call first to ask if the course is okay with spiked shoes or is a spikeless golf course. Some clubs prefer to maintain a smoother green and require spikeless shoes. However, many players prefer spikes due to their traction ability.

1. That's an interesting accessory (tie, scarf, brooch), is there a story behind it?
   I always thought you were in your 40s, how old are you?
2. I heard you had some medical problems last month, what happened?
   Did Charles really have a fling with Audrey?

Unless you want to offend people there is no reason to discuss age, medical problems, or love affairs in front of company.

1. Turn your wineglass upside down.
   Simply place your fingertips on the rim of the glass and say “Not today, thanks.”
2. Say loudly, "no, drinking is for alcoholics!"
   Move your wine glass to the other side of the silverware setting( by the fork).

Simply place your fingertips on the rim of the glass and say “Not today, thanks.” This implies no judgment of those who wish to imbibe.