Guys: Are You an Alpha Male?

By: Steven Miller

Guys: Are You an Alpha Male?
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About This Quiz

Are you strong enough in body, mind, and spirit to handle the leadership role? There will be challenges to your top dog status, of that you can be sure.
How physically strong are you?
I'm a total beast.
I'm stronger than most.
I'm not a weakling, but I wouldn't say that I'm strong either.
I have to admit that I'm pretty weak.

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How comfortable are you in being in a leadership position?
I'd much rather follow someone else who has earned my trust.
I can take a leadership position if I need to, but I'd really rather not.
I'm comfortable in most leadership situations.
I'm very comfortable in a leadership position. In fact, I thrive on it.

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How regularly do you experience moments of weakness?
It's pretty rare.
It happens every so often.
Never.
All the time.

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Are members of the opposite sex attracted to you?
Yes, in a big way.
There are some who are attracted to me, but it is pretty rare.
Not at all.
I think I'm generally considered attractive by the opposite sex.

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How popular are you?
I have a few friends.
I have a pretty substantial crew.
I'm more of a loner.
It seems like I'm friends with pretty much everybody.

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Would you say that you're admired by others?
I don't get that sense, no.
I think that a lot of people do look up to me.
There are a couple people in the world who admire me.
People admire some aspects of who I am.

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How do you react to someone challenging your authority?
I'm not intimidated. I will engage their challenge without being defensive.
I'm likely to initially get a little bent out of shape, but I'll listen to what they have to say.
I'm probably going to get pissed and aggressive.
I'm thrilled, please take it.

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How do you react when things get stressful?
I tend to shut down and isolate.
I tend to get a little worked up, and I make more mistakes.
I used to struggle with stress, but I'm learning to let it go.
I totally rise to the occasion.

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How would you rate your self-confidence?
I'm confident in most situations, but I do get overwhelmed from time to time.
I struggle a bit with confidence.
I'm very confident, but not cocky.
I have a lot of doubts about myself.

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How trustworthy are you?
I can be trusted with anything.
I'm not as reliable as I'd like to be. I'm working on it.
I tend to flake out a lot.
I'm a pretty trustworthy person. I definitely do my best.

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Would you consider yourself to be fully authentic?
I tend to hide how I'm really feeling about things.
I'm mostly honest and open, but I have to pretend to be something I'm not once in a while.
You have to wear a mask of some kind in this world.
I'm always completely myself.

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How courageous are you?
I'm really a wuss.
No matter what comes my way, I'm going to take it head-on.
I have moments where I do courageous things, but I prefer to avoid having to do that.
I have moments of doubt, but I'm generally willing to do whatever needs to be done.

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How common is it for you to act foolishly?
I hardly ever act foolishly.
It's pretty rare.
It's more common than I'd like to admit.
I take unnecessary risks all the time.

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When was the last time you felt completely lost in your life?
I feel that way right now.
I've felt that way very recently.
It's been a little while since I felt that way.
I don't recall ever feeling like that, or it's been a very long time.

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Do you tend to know what you want?
I usually have a good sense of what I would prefer to have happen.
It usually takes me a while to figure out what it is that I want.
I do, and I don't beat around the bush about it.
I generally have no idea. I prefer others to make decisions for me.

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How unique is your style?
I have a look and a way of doing things that is totally mine.
I guess I have some aspects of my style that are unique, but most of it is just what's trendy.
I dress and act like most people.
I take some cues from other people, but I definitely make the look my own.

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Would you consider yourself to be a competitive person?
I get competitive about certain things that I'm good at.
I'm a pretty competitive person, but I don't have to be the best at everything.
I try to avoid competition.
I am highly competitive in all that I do.

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Would you consider yourself to be more of an optimist or a pessimist?
I tend to be very pessimistic.
I'm very optimistic.
I guess I'm a realist, which is sadly more pessimistic in nature.
I'm somewhere in the middle.

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When was the last time you flaked out on a responsibility?
It's been so long that I can't recall it.
In the last year.
In the last week.
Today.

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Are you a rebel or do you tend to follow the rules?
I totally follow the rules.
It's pretty rare for me not to follow the rules.
I tend to follow the rules, but I'm happy to break them if I think they are unfair or wrong.
I go my own way in everything I do.

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When was the last time someone said that you were an inspiration to them?
I am told that from time to time.
Someone said that to me once.
I get that on a regular basis.
I don't think I've ever heard that.

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Would you say that you're more confident or cocky?
I'm definitely confident. Being cocky is a sure sign of self-doubt.
People say that I'm cocky, but I don't see it.
I'm neither.
I can go a little overboard with my confidence once in a while.

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Would you consider yourself to be ambitious?
I've had some ambitious plans in my life, but I've learned to scale it down.
People say that I'm ambitious, but I think everything I want to do is pretty simple.
Not at all. I'm happy just to get by.
Yes, I have very big plans and I expect to achieve all my goals.

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Has anyone ever told you that you make them feel safe?
I don't recall ever hearing that.
Yeah, that's something that people close to me say on a regular basis.
I've been told that before, but it's been a while.
I'll get that from my significant other once in a while.

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Do people around you tend to improve their lives after they've met you?
I've noticed that seems to be the trend.
That doesn't happen to everyone, but it is pretty common.
I wouldn't go so far as to say that I have that kind of influence on people.
Not really, their lives might actually get a little worse.

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Where is your focus in lovemaking?
On pleasure for myself.
It goes back and forth between my pleasure and my partner's.
It's mostly focused on my partner, but I do get into my own pleasure once in a while.
It is focused completely on pleasing my partner.

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How many people consider you to be their go-to guy?
There are a number of people who turn to me when they need things done.
I've got one person who thinks of me in that way.
My whole community regards me in that way.
I don't think I'm that guy for anyone.

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Where would you rate your intelligence?
Highly intelligent.
Average.
Below average.
Above average.

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When was the last time you lost your temper?
Yesterday.
Within the last month.
Today.
It's been a long time.

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Are you a jealous person?
My jealousy has ruined many relationships in the past.
I'm not jealous at all.
I get a little jealous from time to time.
It's pretty rare for me to get jealous, but it does happen.

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