How Many Relationships Will You Have Before You Find the One?

By: Talin Vartanian

How Many Relationships Will You Have Before You Find the One?
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About This Quiz

Humans are filled with life goals that will bring them happiness and purpose. Some of these goals include becoming rich, living in a beautiful house and landing that dream job that you've always wanted. These are all wonderful things, but for other people, their life goal is to find their soulmate, otherwise known as "the one." But who exactly is this special someone, and where are they hiding?

They may be someone that you know at work, or maybe, you just haven't met them yet. That's because we don't really know who "the one" is until we're dating them. And sometimes, it takes years before you realize that your significant other is your true soulmate. A soulmate is someone that you feel a deep and intimate connection to. You may not always agree with them or be 100% happy in the relationship, but they become a person that you want to stay with no matter what. You accept their flaws and who they are as a person, because at the end of the day, that's what true love is all about. But how many relationships will it take for you to find this special someone? Whether it's two, four or eight, it's time for you to find out by taking our loving quiz!

Q1 Average Lifespan What is the average lifespan of your dating relationships?
At least 1-2 years
Between 6-12 months
Between 3-6 months
Less than three months

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Q2 Short Term/Long Term If you had a preference, would you prefer a short-term or a long-term relationship?
Long and loving
I think it depends on who I'm dating.
Doesn't matter to me.
Short and sweet

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Q3 The One What is your own definition of "the one?"
"The one" is more of a feeling that can't be put into words.
Someone who is always there for me.
Someone who is successful and wealthy.
Someone who is both good-looking and adorable.

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Q4 First Date Kiss True or false: it's completely OK to go for a kiss on the first date.
I think it depends on how I feel in the moment.
False, I would wait until the second or third date.
Knowing me, I would wait until the fifth or sixth date.
So true, just go for it!

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Q5 Your Type Your ideal "type" can be best described as ...
Caring and loving
Funny and charming
Intellectual and determined
Sassy but sweet

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Q6 Caught Yikes. You just caught your S.O. sending flirty text messages to someone else. You decide to ...
Calmly talk to them about what's going on.
End the relationship. Clearly, they have other priorities.
Give them another chance, maybe it was nothing.
Break their phone, they deserve it.

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Q7 Lose Feelings When you start to lose feelings for your S.O., what's the best course of action?
Communicate how I feel with my S.O.
Find out why I feel this way.
I have no idea.
Break up with them.

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Q8 Another Country You've been dating someone for three years when suddenly, they announce that they're moving to another country for work. You decide to ...
Move with them!
Try and convince them to stay.
Try to make this long-distance relationship work out.
Break up with them, I can't handle the distance.

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Q9 Marvel Superhero Your ideal soulmate has the personality of which of these Marvel superheroes?
Captain America
Iron Man
Doctor Strange
Black Widow

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Q10 Painful Love is not always rainbows and butterflies. What makes it painful sometimes?
The growth of a relationship.
Dealing with someone else's flaws.
It doesn't seem that painful to me.
Trying to deal with the temptation of dating other people.

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Q11 Show Love What's the best way to show your love for someone?
It's all about the little things, like a sweet text message.
By simply telling them!
By making them a nice gift.
I like to hide my feelings.

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Q12 Relationship Status How would you describe your current relationship status?
Single and ready to mingle
Single and content
Taken and overjoyed
Taken and unhappy

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Q13 Ex Would you ever date one of your friend's exes?
Probably not, but it also depends on the person.
Only if my friend was OK with it.
No, that's against the friendship code.
Of course, why not?

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Q14 Dating Style How would you describe your overall dating style?
Sweet and romantic
I'm more serious when it comes to dating.
Casual
I prefer online or speed dating.

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Q15 Career What career would you like your soulmate to have?
Nurse
Art teacher
Lawyer
Model

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Q16 Forgot Birthday Uh oh. You totally forgot about your crush's birthday! What would you say as an apology?
"I forgot to say Happy Birthday, but I didn't forget about your present."
"I'm SO sorry! I promise I won't forget next time."
"Happy Belated Birthday!"
"My bad."

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Q17 Wedding How does your future wedding look like to you?
Small, with some friends and family members there
Whimsical and colorful
Expensive
I don't want to get married.

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Q18 Broken Hearts How many hearts have you broken over the course of your dating life?
One or two
Three or four
Five or six
I lost count.

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Q19 Break Up No one wants to get their heart broken, but what's the best way to do it?
Just tell someone face-to-face.
A brief phone call
Text message
Ghosting always works for me.

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Q20 Date You just scored a date with the crush of your dreams! How are you going to impress them?
By taking them somewhere fun, like an ice skating rink.
The date doesn't matter, but the gift does!
I'll take them somewhere low-key, like a beautiful park.
I'll take them to the most expensive restaurant in town.

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Q21 Famous Movie Couple Which famous movie couple do you aspire to be like one day?
Rose and Jack in "Titanic"
Sebastian and Mia in "La La Land"
Allie and Noah in "The Notebook"
Danny and Sandy in "Grease"

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Q22 Spirit Animal A spirit animal can help to guide you on your journey of love. What's your dating spirit animal like?
Horse
Beaver
Raven
Cheetah

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Q23 Stressful Day at Work Your S.O. just got home after a long day of work. What will you do to make them feel better?
A nice massage should do the trick!
Cook them their favorite meal.
Make the place look sparkling clean.
Nothing, that's not my problem.

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Q24 Propose You just proposed to your S.O. of five years ... but they said no. Would you keep dating someone with commitment issues?
Of course, we can work this out together!
Probably, but things would feel different.
I don't know, I'd have to talk to them first.
Heck no! What a waste of time.

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Q25 Out of Your League Would you ever date someone who is out of your league?
I don't know, I guess it depends on the person.
No way, I'm too shy for that.
Of course, I love a challenge!
No one is out of my league.

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Q26 Dislike SO None of your friends like your current S.O. and you can't seem to understand why. Would you investigate this matter?
Probably not, but I would keep this in mind.
I would definitely hear my friends out.
Yes, this seems rather odd to me.
Nah, their opinions aren't important.

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Q27 Jealous Do you find jealous people to be adorable or annoying?
Wait, how jealous are we talking here?
Adorable, it's so cute!
A bit of both
Ugh, it's so annoying!

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Q28 Stages There are different stages of a relationship. What part is your favorite?
The first 2-3 years
The first year
The first few months
The very beginning

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Q29 Personality What aspect of someone's personality instantly grabs your attention?
Kindness
Humor
Intellect
I like someone who is a bit mysterious.

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Q30 Comfortable Is it really that bad to become comfortable in a relationship?
Yes, never become like this!
I think a little bit of comfort is ideal.
I think becoming comfortable is natural in a relationship.
Wait, why would this be bad?

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