Is He Really the One?

By: Emily Maggrett
Estimated Completion Time
6 min
Is He Really the One?
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About This Quiz

No one will deny this important truth: It's heckin' easy to get tricked by a cute guy. The fact is, when a guy is super ripped or has a pretty face, you want him to be right for you, despite all the evidence to the contrary. But in reality, dope boyfriends don't grow on trees! In other words, not everybody who looks like a good boyfriend is a good boyfriend. 

But how can you tell the difference between someone you feel great around and someone who's actually great for you? By taking this quiz, fam. We've come up with questions designed to help you figure out if he's right for you or just a precious lil' summer boyfriend. You're going to have to tell us how he acts around your friends, whether you secretly have a crush on his hot best friend and what he does when you complain. In return, we'll reveal whether this relationship will age like a fine wine or expire faster than milk.

Can you handle finding out the truth about bae? If the answer to that is yes, stop messing around. Close your other tabs and come play this quiz!

Man ignoring girlfriend
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What's his most annoying habit?
He tells too many dad jokes.
He's secretive AF.
He doesn't actually listen to me very often.
He's big jealous.

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Surprise
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Has he ever made a big deal of your birthday?
Bae ALWAYS makes a huge deal of my birthday and gets me the best stuff.
Sometimes he forgets; sometimes he surprises me and gets big romantic.
He makes an epic deal out of my birthday, and I hate it.
I don't think this guy even knows when my birthday is!

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Best friends
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Are you more attracted to him or his hot best friend?
Him, of course.
Him, but ... in another life ...
Oof, the best friend. How did you know?
Obviously the best friend. It's not even a contest.

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Couple riding bikes
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When you get together, who decides what you'll be doing?
We decide together.
Actually, that's something we fight about a lot.
Usually him, although he'll change his mind if I make a big thing of it.
He does. Always. 😯

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Boring movie
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Does he take you on dope dates, or does he just invite you to watch him hang out with his friends?
He's a genius at coming up with stuff I actually want to do.
He's too much of a loner to make me hang out with his friends, but our dates all consist of "staying in."
He likes to do corny stuff like bowling.
TBH, I spend a lot of time watching him watch Twitch.

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Washing dishes
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When he comes over to your house, does he clean up after himself?
Every time!
... No. 😒
Yes. Not only that, but he cleans up after me. And my roommate. And my dog.
I don't think the idea of doing that has ever occurred to him ...

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Fixing bathroom
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When stuff breaks in your house, does he try to fix it?
Yes, if he can.
That's not his vibe at all, fam.
He tries ... and he fails every time.
I don't need his help! I can fix almost anything myself. 💪

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Woman holding mug
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Does your mom like him?
Yuh. They're like BFF.
No. She doesn't trust him at all.
She thinks he's "okay."
Lol. Like I'd take this trash home to my mom. 🙃

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Cuddling
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How good is he at cuddling?
Expert cuddler
Great cuddler when he's in the mood
Mediocre cuddler; weird vibes
Hates cuddling; acts bummed out if I ask him to

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Serious conversation
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If one of his friends insulted you, how would he react?
He'd pull them aside and tell them to knock it off.
IDK. He might laugh, actually.
He'd make a messy scene.
He'd pretend like he didn't hear it. 🤷‍♂️

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Holding dog
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Does he like dogs?
Duh. All good-hearted people do.
He likes big dogs, like Malamutes.
I think he prefers cats.
Actually, he doesn't like ANY animals.

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Man talking
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How long can you complain about your problems before he changes the subject?
Half an hour
10 minutes
Hours and hours
Five minutes

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Friend group
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Do your friends think he's Gucci or extra?
Gucci
Some of my friends ship us; other don't.
They don't say much about him at all, actually ...
Extra

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Train station
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When something ruins your plans together, does he act chill or high-key?
He's just happy to be together.
He gets tense AF.
He gets big mad.
If our plans don't work out, he usually dips. Leaving me alone. 😥

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Let's pretend that you just met him and he has another partner. Would you try to break them up or would you shrug, then dip?
I ... guess I'd have to break them up.
I'd test him by acting thirsty, then go from there.
I'd dip!
He's the kinda guy you just gotta shrug at. 🤷‍♀️

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Friends flirting
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Does he flirt with your friends?
No
Sometimes
He's never flirted with any of my friends, and it's funny because I wish one of them would steal him!
He flirts with one of my friends, and I don't like it.

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Couple arguing
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What's his arguing style?
Calm and thoughtful
Salty but honest
Whiny and victim-y
Savage AF

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Smiling and texting
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Does he text you too much or too little?
A litty amount
Maybe too little
Waaaay too much
He never texts me; I have to start every conversation myself. 😖

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Checking phone
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Are you ever tempted to steal his phone so you can check up on him?
No. That's disrespectful of his privacy.
Yes. Because fr, it's impossible to tell what he's thinking.
No ... because I think it would be boring.
No, because I just don't GAF.

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Ed Sheeran
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Which pop star is he the most like?
Sam Smith
Bruno Mars
Ed Sheeran
Calvin Harris

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Friends chatting
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Are his friends cool to you, or do they treat you like a rando who will be gone soon?
They're super chill to me, always.
They're nice enough, but most of them haven't gone out of their way to befriend me.
Come to think of it, they do treat me like a rando. 😐
I haven't even met his friends!?

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Payment machine
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Be honest: Does he pay for stuff, or do you?
We take turns treating each other.
We usually go Dutch.
He pays for everything, and he's high-key weird about it.
I pay for me AND him.

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Kissing in kitchen
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Tell the truth: In your heart of hearts, do you really love him? Or are you settling?
Don't troll us! I couldn't love him more.
I love him, but I don't think he loves me.
He loves me, but I'm just with him because I'm scared I can't get another man.
I don't love him. I'm just having fun. 😈

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Engagement
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Does he want to put a ring on it?
Yes ... and I can't wait!
I'm not sure. We haven't been dating that long, TBH.
No, and it's my biggest problem with him.
That boy can't even commit to dinner plans.

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Coffee with grandpa
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If your grandpa wanted to take him out for coffee, what would he say?
"Of course, sir."
"Hmm, I'd like to, but I'm just too heckin' busy."
"I thought you'd never ask!"
He'd be so shook, bae wouldn't be able to even TALK.

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Sweatpants
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Are you comfortable wearing sweatpants around him?
Totally. We're at the stage, you know?
No. He's never seen me without a beat face.
Yeah, but maybe I'm TOO comfortable?
My dude, we're just not that close.

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Staring at phone
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Has he ever ghosted you?
Absolutely not!
Every once in a while, yes. It makes me feel shook.
No, but ... I like to ghost him. 😏
All the time, bruh.

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Beyoncé and Jay-Z
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Which famous couple is your couple twin?
Justin and Hailey
Lili and Cole
Selena and The Weeknd
Ariana and Pete

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Work party
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Can you rely on him to go with you to boring work events?
Yup. He's my permanent plus-one. #Blessed
Nah, he's too cool for that.
TBQH, I don't invite him to work stuff.
He always goes, but he often makes me cringe by being too high-key with my coworkers.

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Stylish guy
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Is his style good?
It's fire.
It's pretty on point.
It's ... okay.
His style embarrasses me, actually.

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