Motherhood has long been lauded as one of the most virtuous and difficult responsibilities of the human experience, yet it remains fraught with debates over how it should be done and who does it best. Forget those hang-ups and get down to the nuts and bolts of modern mothering with this quiz.
As of 2012, what percentage of mothers under 30 years old are married?
According to Washington research group Child Trends, unmarried motherhood is becoming increasingly common in the United States, especially among younger women. In fact, as of 2012, a majority of American moms under 30 years old hadn't walked down the wedding aisle.
Which of the following groups of mothers tend to be happiest?
part-time employed mothers
Both staying at home full time and working full time present psychological challenges for mothers either struggling to find autonomy outside of their domestic identities or carve out more time with children in busy office schedules. At the same time, research indicates part-time employed mothers are the least stressed and most satisfied with their family life.
Which of the following career fields is harshest on working mothers?
Moms toting around M.B.A.s may receive the biggest punch to their paychecks. A 2010 Harvard study found that business-oriented working moms experience a 41 percent income disparity, compared to their male coworkers. Medical doctors get the lowest "mommy income penalty."
True or false: Married couples tend to be happier before they have kids and after kids leave the nest.
Repeated studies have confirmed what many parents can probably tell you: Starting a family takes a toll on a relationship. On average, couples are happier in empty nests, both before and after raising children.
Which of the following senses sharpens with childbirth?
After childbirth, mothers experience neuron growth in the olfactory (smell) center of their brains. This helps them detect the scent of their babies and assists with the intensive process of mother-newborn bonding.
How much of a lifetime earnings cut does the average highly skilled mom sustain?
Becoming a mother can take a bite out of a woman's paycheck. According to data from the National Bureau of Economic Research, highly skilled women give up about 21 percent of their lifetime earnings in exchange for having kids.
The average new mother loses how much weight immediately after delivering a baby?
Not surprisingly, getting a rid of a baby in one's belly also gets rid of some pounds. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, the average new mom immediately drops 10 pounds (4.5 kilograms) during childbirth.
Doctors refer to mood swings and sleeplessness in the first few weeks following childbirth as what?
The "baby blues" and their attendant mood swings are a common side effect of new motherhood, likely caused by major postnatal hormonal shifts. Postpartum depression is a more serious and persistent mental health condition that generally develops a few months after delivering.
Breastfeeding mothers commonly complain of lackluster libidos, probably due to hormones. Lactation-inducing prolaction and the act of breastfeeding simultaneously diminish levels of estrogen and testosterone that promote healthy sex drives. Typically, after a child weans, libido comes back as well.
True or false: Men's desire for children generally drops after they become a first-time father.
Psychological research out of Kansas State University has found that men tend to experience "baby fever," more commonly after they have their first child, whereas women tend to experience it more dramatically before giving birth for the first time.
What percentage of adult men experience "baby fever," or a strong urge to have a child of their own?
According to research out of Finland, a majority of adult men come down with a case of "baby fever" at some point, with about 58 percent reporting having experienced the sudden, overwhelming urge to have a child. It's more common among women, with 78 percent catching "baby fever," most typically during their late 20s.