There Are Five Love Languages, Which Are You Most Compatible With?
By: Jennifer Post
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About This Quiz
Dr. Chapman outlined five love languages in his 1995 book, "The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate." In the book, he claims that every single person has one primary love language, and one secondary. Chapman has worked as a pastor for many years, and his concept of love languages is actually deeply rooted in religion, but is not solely a religious idea or practice. It is something that everyone can relate to and find themselves in. These five love languages primarily focus on how we express and want to be shown love from a romantic partner, but it can really extend to pretty much every relationship you can have.
Figuring out which love language you speak can help determine what kind of person you want to be with. If you require words of affirmation more than physical touch, it would be helpful to try and find someone whose primary language lines up with giving words of affirmation and not needing a lot of physical contact. Consider these love languages like the Zodiac signs. Some line up really well with others, and some are not super compatible. Do you want to know which of the five love languages you're most compatible with? Take out quiz to find out!
Do you like it when your partner writes you little love notes?
It's nice, but not needed.
I'd rather them say it to me.
It's the most important to me.
How crucial is one-on-one time with your partner?
Of course it's nice, but doesn't need to happen all the time.
That's the only way to build a strong relationship.
A few times a week it's refreshing.
If it's been a busy time, it's nice after all of that.
Are you someone who needs positive reinforcement in order to function?
It's nice to feel validated, but I don't need it to function.
What's the most unexpected romantic gesture someone could do for you?
Saving things from our relationship and putting them in a scrap book
Clearing their whole day to hang out with me
Cleaning the whole house without me asking
Do you like public displays of affection?
There's nothing wrong with a quick kiss.
It's nice to be thought of.
What's your favorite thing to do with your significant other?
Have them tell me they love me
Snuggle on the couch and watch TV
Do you take compliments well?
They make me kind of uncomfortable.
I get shy, but I love hearing them.
I'd rather there be an actual act.
When you love someone, how do you show it?
By spending as much time with them as possible
I try to do little things for them.
Make sure I hug and kiss them as often as I can
How would you prefer someone show their love for you?
Wanting to be around me all the time
I'm really big on actions speaking louder than words.
Be very physically affectionate
Is it important that your partner is proud of you?
It's pretty important, yeah.
It only matters if they tell me they are.
It would definitely be nice to feel supported.
It's even more important if they show it.
Is your partner the one you rely on to help you with things?
I want them to want to help me.
I don't rely on them, but I do like it.
Nope, but encouraging words are useful.
Yeah, they're the best person for the job.
Why do you think quality time is so important?
Quality time is such a gift.
It helps me feel connected to my partner.
We can build each other up and talk.
It gives us a chance to do things for each other.
When do you feel the most comfortable with your significant other?
When we're exchanging little gifts with each other
The times when we are together just the two of us
When we can tell each other anything
When we're at the point of doing things for each other without being asked
What does it mean to you when your partner tries out one of your interests?
It shows that they're willing to do something they may not like just to hang out with me.
It's nice, but I like having some things to myself.
Which would be an ideal first date?
Going out for an intimate dinner
Talking about how much we like each other
Having my door opened for me, chair pulled out, all that stuff
What is your favorite thing to celebrate with your significant other?
Do you like to vacation with your partner?
The two of us alone on a island? Sign me up!
If they surprise me with it, that would be amazing.
As long as we can get couple's massages, I'm in.
Of all the things your significant other could say to you, what is the best?
That they want to spend the whole day with me
That they appreciate everything I do for them
I'd rather they show me than tell me.
If you're on the hunt for a partner, what do you look for?
Someone who likes to stay in more than going out
A really thoughtful person who will go out of their way for me
A person who loves physical touch
How do you take your apologies?
Talking it out and re-connecting over date night
If my partner does something for me that I normally do, I know they're apologizing.
Does your partner surprise you with things?
Yes! I get random gifts a lot.
They surprise me by choosing spending time with me over their hobbies.
Every time they say I love you, I'm surprised.
Yes! When they vacuum, I swoon.
What's the best gift your partner could ever give you?
How do you split up housework with your partner?
Pick the things we want to do and do them
Whoever has more time does the stuff.
We just do whatever needs to be done.
I pretty much do everything.
What if the other person isn't carrying their weight around the house?
They'll do it eventually.
I pick a day that we can get it all done together.
I kindly ask them to do it.
I do their part for them.
How would you react if your family didn't love your partner?
I'd try my best to convince them.
Make them spend more time together
Tell them how great my partner is
How do you show non-romantic people you love them?
Spend time with them just like I do with my romantic partner
Let them know I'm happy they're in my life
What's something you do for your partner after they've had a long day at work?
Chill out on the couch with them
Tell them they're doing great
Give them a big bear hug when they get home
If you were an animal, which one would you be?
Where would you want to meet a future significant other?
Do you expect your partner to do a lot of thoughtful things for you?
I'd rather have their time.
Things are nice, but conversations are better.
I do like when they do things for me.
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