What Do You Most Need in a Man?

By: Lauren Lubas
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
What Do You Most Need in a Man?
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About This Quiz

Relationships are hard work, and it takes two to make them great. Both you and your man have needs that should be met by the other to keep the relationship happy and healthy. 

However, there are some things that you might need in your man before you even realize that you need them. If you aren't sure what you need most in a man, you can't ask for it, or define it, and that can lead to a lot of unwanted attempts at relationships that can fail pretty quickly. While some need specific actions or behaviors from their men, others need surface-level perfections. 

All of these are reasonable requests of the dating world, but if you aren't sure what you need the most, you may find yourself trying to date every different kind of man just to "give him a chance." Ultimately, this is a colossal waste of your time and dating energy. That is why it's so important to know what you're looking for in a man and what you need the most before you even step foot in the modern dating arena. It's time for you to hone in on your wants and needs, and find the right man for you. Answer these questions, and we'll tell you what you need most in a man.

Are you a cat person or a dog person?
A dog person. They never leave you.
A cat person. Their love is harder to earn.
All animals are adorable.
I don't like animals.

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What is your favorite part of a man?
His arms.
His smile.
His eyes.
His brain.

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What would you prefer your man to wear?
Comfy clothes.
Whatever he wants to wear.
A muscle shirt and nice jeans.
Khakis and a button down shirt.

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What is your favorite color for a man's eyes?
Brown.
Blue.
Green.
Black.

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Where do you normally meet the men you date?
Through friends.
At work.
At the bar.
On Tinder.

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If you're at the bar and a man offers to buy you a drink, what do you say?
I tell him I'll need two drinks.
I ask him why he wants to buy me a drink.
I smile and accept.
I tell him not to bother, I already have a drink.

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What is your favorite holiday?
Arbor Day.
New Year's Day.
Halloween.
Valentine's Day.

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What kind of phone do you have?
Samsung Note.
Whatever phone works.
The latest iPhone.
An older iPhone.

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Do you order an appetizer on the first date?
Yes, because he should know how much I can eat.
If I'm hungry, I will.
No, never.
No, but I'll eat it if he does.

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Which would you rather watch?
A romantic comedy.
A nature documentary.
A super hero movie.
A thriller.

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Which of these is most important to you?
Being on time.
Arriving safely.
Making an entrance.
None of these are really important to me.

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Which of these characters from "The Office" would you consider dating?
Michael Scott.
Dwight Schrute.
Andy Bernard.
Todd Packer.

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What is your ideal Valentine's Day gift?
A ring.
Netflix and chill.
A beautiful necklace.
A nice dinner and a bottle of wine.

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Would you ever date anyone who has been arrested?
No.
It depends on what he was arrested for.
I probably have and don't know about it.
Yes, but only if he's changed.

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What is the longest you've ever worked anywhere?
Over ten years.
5-10 years.
2-4 years.
I usually can't hold a job longer than a year.

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Are you environmentally conscious?
Yes, very much so.
For the most part, but I have my faults.
Not really.
Definitely not.

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How long was your longest relationship?
One year.
Over a year.
A couple of months.
A couple of dates.

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What do you wear when you want to be comfortable?
Sweat pants and a t-shirt.
Pajama pants and a sweatshirt.
Yoga pants and a tank top.
Nothing at all.

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How often do you exercise?
More than 3 times per week.
Once or twice a week.
Once every couple of weeks.
I don't exercise.

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Does your man have to be tan?
I'm not really worried about it.
He should be whatever color he wants to be.
Yes! I like that.
It's nice, but it doesn't matter.

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Which animal do you want to cuddle?
Koala bear.
Cat.
I want to cuddle all animals.
An iguana.

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Which of these is your favorite show?
Modern Family.
The Goldbergs.
America's Got Talent.
The Mentalist.

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Have you ever considered yourself a diva?
Not at all.
I can be sometimes.
Yes. It's my title.
Only when I'm hungry.

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Which of these best describes the last social event you were at?
Dinner with friends.
A work event.
Pub crawl downtown.
I'm not very social.

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Which of these would be the best career for you?
Web design/development.
Accounting.
Sales.
Customer service.

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How often do you call your parents?
Nearly every day.
Twice a week.
Once a week.
I don't really call my parents.

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If you want a new pair of shoes, what do you do?
Save up and try to buy them.
Go out and buy them.
Find someone to buy them for me.
Steal them.

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How old is the oldest dress in your closet?
Over ten years old.
Less than a year old.I donate what I don't wear after a year.
Five years old.
6-10 years old.

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If you want to impress your man, what do you do?
Show him an antique from my collection.
Tell him one of my secrets.
Wear something sexy.
Talk about things I know about.

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What is your favorite drink?
Beer.
Martini.
Mai Tai.
Hurricane.

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