What Is Your Most Charming Quality?

By: Steven Miller
Estimated Completion Time
6 min
What Is Your Most Charming Quality?
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About This Quiz

Some people are drawn to the charismatic types. Their very presence lights up the room and the whole energy of their environment changes when they come on the scene. These are the types who have a very general appeal and are perhaps the first ones that come to mind when we think of the word "charming." That being said, some people find those oozing with charisma to simply be too full of themselves and far too extroverted for their taste.

Maybe you're the kind of person who is more quiet and nice. Your unassuming and kind demeanor may not get as much attention as the gregarious types, but the authentic way that you care for others could definitely be seen as a charming and highly attractive quality.

Perhaps you are the one who always finds the smile and the laughter in any situation. If you can lighten a heavy moment or cheer someone up with a joke, your sense of humor might just be your most charming characteristic.

Alternatively, maybe you're a teacher at heart, someone who is drawn to passing on the wisdom and lessons of your life to the next generation. Your drive and determination to empower others may not fit a traditional concept of "charming," but this quality can definitely draw people to you.

Let's find out which of your characteristics acts like the Pied Piper's melody.

How good are you at making people laugh?
I'm freaking hilarious.
I tend to cheer people up, but it's rare for me to use a joke.
I suppose I have a reputation of bringing a smile to people's faces.
That's not really my strong suit.

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Are you more likely to be the life of the party or a wallflower?
I'll be engaging in some amazing one-on-one conversations.
I'm definitely the one who kicks the party into another gear.
I'm likely to be quiet and in the background.
I don't know if I'm the life of the party, but I do contribute to the good times.

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Do you serve as a mentor to anyone in your life?
I help people, but I don't think I would call it mentoring.
I have a few people who look up to me and admire the way I do things.
No, I'm not really mentor material.
Yes, I mentor a rather large group of people.

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How much of your time do you spend helping those in need?
I cheer people up with laughter. If you count that, I spend all my time helping those in need.
I don't really have time to do that. My life is so busy.
I help those in need by teaching them new skills to cope with their issues.
That's primarily what I do with my life.

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Which best describes your sense of humor?
Slapstick
Goofy
Dry
Witty

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How big is your circle of friends?
I know a lot of people, but it takes an impressive person to get into my inner circle.
I have a small group of very close friends.
My crew rolls deep.
I have a rather large group of people that I'm close to.

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Which sounds the most like your usual Friday night plans?
A fun night out on the town.
Spending time with someone who needs some company.
Whatever I end up doing, it's going to be epic.
I'll probably head down to the youth center and volunteer my time.

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How many community organizations do you belong to?
I'm the leader of a community organization and involved in a few more.
None that I can think of.
I help out at a couple groups.
I'm involved with one, but it's pretty rare.

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How would you feel about giving a speech to a large group of people?
That sounds awful to me. I hope I don't have to do it.
I would be amazing at doing that.
I'd probably do alright. I'd definitely make them laugh.
I could do it, but I prefer working with people one-on-one.

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How do you generally act when you pass a homeless person begging for change?
I generally just pass on by.
It just depends on how much of a rush I'm in.
I usually sit down and get to know them.
I give them the change I have on me.

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Of the following, which movie is most appealing to you?
"Ghostbusters"
"Pay It Forward"
"The Pursuit of Happyness"
"Patch Adams"

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How would you describe your love life?
It has its ups and downs.
It's pretty ridiculous.
I have a very exciting and fulfilling love life.
It's stable and loving.

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Would you consider yourself to be a patient person?
It depends on my mood that day.
I think I'm one of the most patient people I know.
No, I'm kind of in a rush all the time.
I can be patient, unless someone is just blatantly wasting my time.

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Do you enjoy the role of being a teacher in some form or another?
That's what I live for.
I do, but not in the classic sense.
I'd rather teach by example.
Not really, but I appreciate that teaching is one of the hardest jobs on the planet.

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How are you most likely to deal with a difficult moment?
I'll likely become aware of how that difficulty is impacting others around me.
I'll gut it out and make it through with will power.
I will make light of it and laugh.
I will use it as a learning moment and an opportunity to grow.

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Are you a great storyteller?
I'm pretty good. I'll keep you laughing, for sure.
I'll have you on the edge of your seat.
I've gotten pretty good at telling certain stories to get a point across.
I'm more likely to bore people to tears with my stories.

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Do you generally focus on what's right or what's wrong with a situation?
I focus on taking things that are wrong and making them right.
I'm always working on being grateful and focusing on what is working.
I try to pay attention to both.
I guess it's pretty natural for me to focus on what's wrong.

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If someone you love is going through a rough patch, how are you most likely to try and help?
I will offer them a new skill or lesson.
I'll help them laugh and take their mind off of it for a while.
I'll cheer them up by taking them out to do something they enjoy.
I'll just be with them and listen to them.

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What's the first thing that people generally notice or compliment you on?
My wit
My heart
My energy
My wisdom

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Are you more likely to break up with someone or to have them break up with you?
The days of dating are long behind me, thank goodness.
I'm almost always the one doing the breaking up.
I suppose it's a little more likely that someone else would break up with me.
Oh, I'm the one getting dumped, for sure.

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Which famous comedian do you like the most?
Robin Williams
Dave Chappelle
Ricky Gervais
Ellen DeGeneres

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Have you ever been encouraged to go into acting or modeling?
I have a face for radio.
Yeah, I get that a lot.
I've gotten that before, but it's not really my style.
No, I'm much too shy for that.

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Which charity would you rather volunteer with?
Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation
Random Acts
Heifer International
Night of Too Many Stars

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If a new kid came into your school, which sounds closest to what you'd do?
I'd give them some tips on how to fit in.
I'd come over and tell them a joke to loosen them up.
They have to learn to survive on their own.
I'd just go introduce myself and welcome them.

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Can tragedy be funny?
It may take a little while, but that can be the funniest stuff there is.
No, I don't think so.
It takes a lot of guts to be the first one to tell a joke about a tragedy.
Maybe at some point, but it can definitely inspire change.

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Would you rather your life was peaceful or exciting?
I can't stand being bored, but please leave out the drama.
I'd much rather have excitement.
I'll be quite content with plenty of peace and quiet.
I guess I'd have to lean towards things being interesting, but I just hope they're not too interesting.

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Which vacation spot sounds most appealing to you?
New Zealand
Las Vegas
New York
India

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Which first date sounds most like what you'd suggest?
Heading down to the comedy club.
A sporting activity of some kind.
Trying something new.
Meeting for coffee.

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How do you feel about Valentine's Day?
It's always been an awesome day for me.
It's a nice opportunity to tell people you love them.
It's just another day.
Thanks for reminding me that I'm terrible at relationships.

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Have you ever done any online dating?
I've had a few good experiences with online dating.
Oh yeah, it's a ton of fun. That was sarcastic by the way.
No, I have no need to do that.
I tried it before, but it wasn't really for me.

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