Which Gemstone Symbolizes Your Relationship?

By: Jennifer Post

Which Gemstone Symbolizes Your Relationship?
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About This Quiz

The key to a good relationship is, well, there's not single key to a good relationship. You just know it when you're in one. You also know when you're in a not good, or when you're in a not good place in a good relationship. That happens. But they key to that is figuring out why you aren't feeling super great, and do what you can to fix it. Wanting to fix the problem is half the battle.

Once you figure out what you and your partner are going through, work with them to get through it. A good way to do that is with healing crystals. Hopefully your partner is into them as well, because the power of both of you putting your faith in the stones will amplify its power. Through these stones, you can find ways to reignite your passion for one another, breakthrough the barriers of communication, and see eye to eye on things that were dividing you. 

You are a better judge of your relationship than anyone, and all the stones are there for is to help you get to a place you already know. Want to know what gemstone symbolizes your relationship? Take this quiz to find out!

Do you feel like you and your partner spend enough time together?
Not really
We get plenty of time together
We have so many other things going on
Sure

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How well do you feel like you and your significant other understand each other?
Great actually
Not very well at the moment
We are on the same page with most things
We know what we want

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In your relationship, how much alone time do you need?
A good amount
Every once in a while
A fair amount, but not a majority of the time
Not as much as I'm currently getting

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How affectionate are you towards one another?
That's one of the things we're really good at
Not as much as other couples
We fit it in where we can
We show minimal affection

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On a Saturday night, what are the two of you doing?
Watching movies
Hanging out with separate friends
Working
The usual: dinner, dishes, TV

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Do you and your partner share the same values?
We absolutely do
We haven't really talked about it
We share the big things
I like to think so

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How do you deal with finances?
We share everything
We each control our own incomes
My partner supports me
We try to make everything as equal as possible

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If you could choose to live anywhere with your partner, where would it be?
A house in the country
I don't think I'm ready to live with my partner
I'd live anywhere as long as my partner were there
Somewhere new and exciting, maybe Europe

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Have you talked about getting married?
We are married
A little bit
We aren't there yet
All the time

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Is there anything missing from your current relationship?
We don't talk that much, and when we do, we just bicker
Quality time
Trust
Intimacy

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Do you consider yourself to be spiritual?
Sometimes
In times of need
I'm very spiritual
I'm somewhere in between spiritual and religious

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When you and your partner disagree, how do you resolve it?
Normally, we talk about it. Right now, we get passive aggressive.
We try to resolve it right away.
Give each other some time
We don't really disagree that often.

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Is physical fitness important to your relationship?
It's crucial
It's not not important
That's our time to bond
It's more important to me than my partner

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How important is physical intimacy to a successful relationship?
A relationship can be very successful without it.
I think it's important to desire one another.
It's the most important.
It gets less important as the relationship goes on.

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When you have free time, do you choose to spend it with your partner?
We're best friends, so yes
We understand personal space, but my partner is still my first choice of people to hang out with.
Most of the time
I have so many friends.

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Do you ever have insecurities in your relationship?
Sometimes I feel like I can't fully express myself
Often
I know it sounds fake to say none but, none
The normal ones like feeling uncomfortable in my body every once in a while.

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When it comes to your significant other, do you feel like you know everything about them?
No, but that's okay
I don't know if I want to know everything.
We learn something about each other every day.
I know what I need to know.

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What does your partner do to make your feel loved?
Rub my back
Read to me at night before bed
Bring me treats
Just being present makes me feel loved

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Who wins the debate of what's for dinner?
I do, as it should be
Whoever feels like going out and picking it up
We have a meal plan so it's all figured out for us
We have our go-to place for when we can't decide what to eat

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Do you have good relationship role models?
My parents have been married for over 30 years.
Totally, that's how I can tell when I'm not in a good relationship.
No, but that doesn't make me incapable of love.
A few

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Do you and your partner have similar tastes in entertainment?
For the most part
Not really
We like almost all of the same things
We generally like the same things

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Are you more likely to confront your SO or the other way around?
Depends on the situation
I'm much more confrontational
We take turns really
We just talk when we need to

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What is your greatest relationship fear?
Not being happy
Not feeling loved
Feeling like I'm not a full part of my partner's life
Getting bored

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Is there anything that you're hiding from your partner?
I have a lot of feelings that I hold back
That I'm not sure the relationship is working for me
That I love them more than anything
I'd do anything to spice things up

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Are there any traditions that you want to build with your significant other?
Holidays with just the two of us at our home
Brunch and a nature walk every Sunday
Making dinner together at least once a week
No tv or phones after 8pm so we can reconnect after a long day

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How good of a parent do you think you would be in your current relationship?
Not great
I would have doubts for sure
There's no time
Pretty great I think

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Does your partner do anything that annoys you?
Well of course, but that's normal
Tells me they love me every 10 minutes
Frequently comes home late
Just stupid things like chewing loudly

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What type of date would bring back some fun to your relationship?
Taking a ceramics class
A nice dinner with a quiet table in the corner
Roller skating
Doing anything that we did when we first started dating

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How long did it take you to say "I love you"?
About 6 months
Less than a year
2 years
Like, 3 months

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Do you stay friends with your exes?
No way
Depends on how the relationship ended
I try not to be
I don't see a problem with it

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