Will She Be Your First Girlfriend?

By: Daniel Yetman

Will She Be Your First Girlfriend?
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About This Quiz

When it comes to love, nobody is an expert. Even relationship gurus often have trouble managing their own relationships. The problem is, once we fall for somebody, we get a rush of chemicals in our brain that makes it hard to think clearly. Even if you're the most logical person in the world, once you fall in love, you can bet that it won't be long before you're staring at the stars and writing sonnets. 

Sometimes the lines between friends, dating and being in a relationship are blurry. How do you know if you're in an exclusive situation with somebody? Unless the two of you have communicated that you're not seeing other people, it's safer to assume that you're not. There's no worse feeling than thinking that you're only seeing each other and then realizing that it's only true from your end. 

So, you've met somebody who makes you nervous, somebody that you like even more than playing games on your smartphone. Is she going to be your first girlfriend? We don't know for sure, but we can ask you questions that may help you answer that for yourself. We've assembled 30 questions to find out if you two have what it takes to make the leap. So what are you waiting for? Let's get started to see if she's the one for you!

Do you share any inside jokes?
Yes, we're ALWAYS laughing together.
We often joke together.
Maybe one or two
No, I don't think so.

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How do you feel when you're around her?
I feel like I can be myself.
I usually feel happy.
I feel very nervous.
I'm always trying hard to impress her.

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Do you ever do activities alone with her?
Yes, we're usually alone.
Sometimes
At least one
I don't think we've ever been alone.

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Does she know that you like her?
Yes, and she said that she likes me too!
No, I haven't told her yet.
Yes, but she didn't say anything.
No, I'm too nervous to say anything.

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Have you met her family?
Yes, and we got along very well.
Yes, and I was very nervous.
Not yet.
Yes, but I don't think they liked me.

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Do you live in the same town/city?
We live in the same place and will likely live in the same place in the future.
We live in the same place.
We live in different communities, but see each other regularly.
No. We live far away and don't see each other often.

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Do you think she's looking for a relationship right now?
Yes, I think so.
She's not actively looking, but I think she would like one.
She's not the relationship type.
She told me that she doesn't want to be in a relationship.

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Do you have the same hobbies?
We have many of the same hobbies.
We have at least one hobby in common.
I'm not sure.
We don't have anything in common.

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Which of these best describes why you like her?
She makes me feel happy when I'm around her.
We share many common interests.
She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.
She's the only girl I talk to.

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When you're talking to her, do you focus on her, or does your attention go elsewhere?
I'm solely focused on her.
She usually has my full attention.
I listen, but sometimes my mind wanders.
I often catch myself not really listening.

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Are you content with your life at the moment?
I'm very content with my life.
I'm happy with most parts of my life.
I'm moderately happy with my life.
I need a girlfriend to be happy.

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Does she fit into your life, or are you constantly canceling plans to be with her?
I love spending time with her, and our schedules align well.
It's a bit difficult to find time to see each other.
I'm constantly canceling plans to spend time with her.
I hardly ever see her unless I drastically change my schedule.

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Do your friends like her?
They love her!
They like her.
They're neutral about her.
No, they can't stand her.

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If you weren't attracted to her, would she still be somebody you'd want to be friends with?
Definitely. She's an awesome person.
We would probably be friends.
We might be friends.
I probably wouldn't be friends with her.

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How do you feel when she has success in her life?
I feel happy for her and I support her.
I feel happy for her.
I get nervous because I'm afraid she'll become more successful than I am.
I get very jealous.

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Do you often find yourself absentmindedly thinking about her?
All the time
Often
Occasionally
No, I don't think so.

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Is she the first person you message when you have exciting news?
Yes, of course!
Maybe not the first person
I probably wouldn't tell her.
I don't know her well enough to message her.

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After you spend time with her, you usually feel...
Happy and energetic
Content
Nothing special
Sad and down

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Have you ever shared an intimate moment with her (kissed, held hands, etc.)?
Yes, it was amazing!
Yes, but it was a one-time thing.
Not yet, but it seems likely that we will.
No, never

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Can you picture her being in your life long-term?
Yes, we have similar life goals.
I think we have similar life plans.
I'm not sure yet.
I think we have very different aspirations in life.

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Does she make you want to better yourself?
Yes, she makes me want to be the best person I can be.
Yes, and she encourages me to be a better person.
Not particularly
No, she doesn't.

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Does she ever open up to you about things going on in her life?
Yes, we have an intimate relationship.
She does occasionally.
Hardly ever
Not really

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How is her sense of humor?
She has an awesome sense of humor.
We often make each other laugh.
Other people think she's funny, but I don't see it.
We don't really make each other laugh.

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Does she treat you respectfully?
Yes, I feel very respected when I'm around her.
She usually makes an effort to ask me how my life is going.
She often forgets things that are important to me.
To be honest, she doesn't treat me that well.

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Is she seeing anybody else?
Nope!
I doubt it.
Not that I know of, but maybe.
Yes, she is.

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When was her last relationship?
More than three months ago/never.
More than a month ago.
She just broke up with somebody.
She's already in one...

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What do you think your parents would think of her?
They would love her, for sure.
I think they would like her.
I don't think they would like her.
They wouldn't get along.

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If you were dating, would do you think would happen if you had to spend two months apart?
We would stay together.
We would stay together, but it would be tough.
We might break up.
I don't think we could do distance for two months.

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When the two of you are in a group, does she give you more attention than she does to other people?
Yes, I've noticed that.
I think so.
I've never noticed/I'm not sure.
No, she doesn't.

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Do you want to make her your girlfriend?
Of course!
I think so.
I'm not sure.
Not really.

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