Do They Want a Relationship With You?

By: Raj Chander
Estimated Completion Time
6 min
We all know texting is the new language of love. How often do you text with them?
We have conversations every day or two.
Every three or four days
Whenever we're both out and about.
All day, every day

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How often do they take the initiative to arrange plans for the two of you?
Not unless it's something they're really into
Almost never, unless it involves coming over to their place.
They suggest things all the time.
About as often as I do

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Humor is a great sign of compatibility. How often do they laugh at your jokes?
Often, but I think they're laughing at me, not with me ...
Half the time
Pretty often
Almost always, as if I were a stand-up comedian

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When you're hanging out with them, how often do they touch you?
All the time. I can't keep their hands off me!
Pretty often when we're in private
Once in a while, during intimate moments
Only when they're trying to hook up

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We usually only open up to the people we are serious about. How much have they told you about their personal issues?
Only a few minor details
Not a lot, unless it's about something happening when we're together
I know them as well as their parents do.
A pretty good amount

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Getting homes involved takes things to the next level. What's the longest you've spent at their place?
Multiple days and nights consecutively
A night and the following morning
A few hours
A night, which is usually the only time of day I'm there

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The involvement of parents is also a good sign they're interested. Do you know their parents?
Only from what they've talked about
We've met once or twice.
Yup, they're practically like my parents!
No, but they've mentioned wanting to introduce me.

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If they talk about the future, you guys may have one. Do they tell you about their plans and ideas?
Only very brief parts
Yes, almost every day.
Yes, multiple times.
We've never gone further than plans for the next day.

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Are you guys strictly on a first-name basis, or do you have pet names?
Not really, just real names
Not unless we're in bed ...
We have tons of different cute names for each other.
The occasional "babe" but nothing more

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One easy way to find out if they're into you is just to ask. Have you ever talked about being in a relationship with them?
Yes, and they've always been receptive to it.
Once or twice, and it's gone fine.
No, I'm a bit worried about bringing it up.
Only our past relationships

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Have you shared a lot of information about your family with them?
Just a few details here and there
A fair amount, and they usually seem interested.
Not yet, I'm not sure if they'd be open to it.
Yes, they've asked about it a lot.

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Our friends influence a lot of our relationship decisions. What do your friends say about them?
They've only met a few, and the reception has been mediocre.
The ones they've met have liked them.
My friends pretty much unanimously love them.
They haven't really met any of my friends.

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Social media is more important than we might like to admit for modern relationship building. Are you guys friends/followers online?
Yes, on multiple networks.
We are Facebook friends.
No, we just check each other's Instagram accounts without following.
No, they don't really care much about social media.

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Do you guys have the same interests in television shows?
We don't really talk about TV.
We've got one or two of the same shows.
Yes, we like several of the same shows.
We're basically TV twins!

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When you guys are hanging out, what's their usual dress code?
It seems like they wear the best outfits they have.
Casual but still nice
Nothing out of the ordinary, most of the time.
Whatever they feel like wearing that day.

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Have you ever cooked together?
Every once in a while
Only once or twice
Yes, a few times a week.
Nope, unless ordering takeout counts.

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What are you guys typically doing when you spend time together?
Too many different things to list. We do a lot together.
Just hanging out and enjoying quality time with each other
Usually just a standard dinner and drinks
Drinking, dancing or going to bed together

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We all know about the prevalence of Netflix and chill. How often do you watch movies together?
We have before, but not often.
They're my favorite movie buddy.
Sometimes, if they're on when we're hanging out.
Yes, we watch them together once or twice a month.

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Do you ever leave things at their place?
Underwear, sometimes
Only when I forget
Yes, we each have a bunch of our stuff at the other's place.
Maybe a few things

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Material gifts are a part of any relationship. Do you guys ever exchange gifts?
On special occasions
Yes, they get me gifts all the time.
Nope
We've talked about it but never officially done it.

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Have you guys ever gone on an extended trip together?
Yes, we've had some great vacations.
We're planning one now.
We've talked about it but made no concrete plans.
Our only extended trips are staying at the bar past happy hour

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Relationships take time to develop. How long have you guys known each other?
A few months
A couple of weeks
6 months or more
1 to 2 months

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When you guys are in person together, what's the vibe like?
Light and playful
Warm and generous
Fun but tenuous
Electric and easygoing

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It's an important element of long-term compatibility—how much do you guys align on religion?
We're two peas in a pod when it comes to religion.
We're the same faith but haven't fully explored our specific views on it.
They have a different faith than me, but that's all I really know.
We don't really talk about religion.

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Hand-to-hand connection is an important element of any relationship. How often do you guys hold hands?
Not very often
Only when dancing
All the time
Pretty frequently

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Music is the rhythm of life. How compatible are you guys when it comes to musical preferences?
We love going to concerts together.
We share many of the same interests.
We have a few artists in common that we like, but not too many.
We don't like any of the same music.

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When it comes to picking up the check, things have changed a lot over the years. Who usually pays when you are out?
We usually split it.
Whoever suggested the hangout
They always try to pay, but I take it sometimes.
Usually they do—I have to fight them to split it.

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You need someone who can make you smile. Do they make you laugh?
Yes, almost too much ...
When they want to, but it's rare.
They can tell some pretty good jokes.
Yes, constantly!

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How many relationships has the person you're seeing been in before?
Just one or two
More than four
They haven't talked much about previous relationships, but I think they've been in a few.
I have no idea. We've never talked about it.

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The things we wear say a lot about us. Do they ask you for input on their outfits and clothing?
Yes, I always help dress them.
Sometimes
Not too often
No, never

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