Do I Love Her?

By: Ian Fortey
Estimated Completion Time
4 min
Do I Love Her?
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About This Quiz

One of the most common thoughts that will run through your head as you're developing feelings for another person is, "How do you know if you're in love?" People ask it all the time and there's a good chance if you haven't asked that question of someone yourself, you've asked someone else. It's a very tricky thing, especially the first time. There's no guide book to explain it, no light that turns on when it happens to let you know without a doubt you're in love. It's confusing.

Fact is that people and relationships are super complex. A person can be great 90% of the time but then awful to you 10% of the time. Can you still love them if they do bad things? Should you? It's very hard to figure out, and it makes us feel like our own feelings are betraying us sometimes. Luckily, people have been dealing with this for as long as we've had feelings to process, so there are ways you can figure it out. If you're not sure if you love the special girl in your life right now, maybe you just need a few minutes to ponder it over. Look at things from a different perspective and maybe it'll all come clear. So come on, answer a few questions and let's see how you feel.

If you just stopped talking to your girl, how long are you able to go without feeling the urge to talk to her again?
Depends on the day
Like an hour
A few hours
Until I need her for something, I guess
How many movies have you sat through that you kind of hated because she wanted to watch them?
Too damned many
We love the same movies.
A few!
I don't watch movies I don't like.
Have you actually told her you love her?
Yeah, I have before.
All the time
Not yet
Not in a long time

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Would you move across the country with her if she got a great job opportunity somewhere?
I'd really have to think about that.
Of course!
I think so, if it was that good of an opportunity.
What about my job?
Who controls the remote when you guys are watching TV?
Whoever gets to it first
Whoever knows what they want to watch
We share.
Me
Do you like her friends?
Some of them
We have the same friends.
Most of them
Ugh

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Do your friends like her?
More or less, I guess.
Of course
As far as I know
Not really
How much time do you spend with her family?
As little as possible
We hang out a lot.
Not a ton, but I like them.
None
Would you ever consider owning a pet with her?
Depends on the pet
We already do.
For sure
I'd rather not.

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Have you ever cried over your relationship?
More than I wanted to
Once or twice
No
Dude, come on.
If you see her talking to someone else who seems pretty attractive, are you OK with it?
I might get a little jealous.
Of course, it's just talking.
I think so.
That's not cool.
Have you ever cheated on her?
I made some mistakes.
Never
No, that's not my style.
Yep

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Has she ever cheated on you?
I hope not.
Of course not
We haven't been together long enough for that to even be a thing.
Yep
Do you think the two of you are going to be together in 10 years?
I have no idea.
I do.
I hope so!
Honestly? Not at all
How often do the two of you get into arguments?
More than I want to
Barely ever
We haven't yet.
Constantly

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Does thinking about her make you happy?
Yeah, some days
Extremely
More than anything
It stresses me out, to be honest.
When's the last time you bought her a gift for no reason?
It's been ages.
Within the last month
I get her little things all the time.
Who buys gifts for no reason?
Is she a good kisser?
Yeah, she's decent.
The best
Yes, she is.
Meh

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What are your thoughts on monogamy?
It's hard work.
I'm a fan.
I've never really thought about it.
Overrated
If she came to you and said she wanted to see other people while she's still in a relationship with you, how would you react?
Man, that's kind of crazy.
We could talk about it.
I'd be weirded out.
That is never gonna happen.
Would you get her name tattooed on you?
I already did.
In a heartbeat.
Wow. I dunno about that.
Are you kidding? No way!

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Do you know her birthday?
If I say yes are you going to make me prove it?
Of course
I think?
I forget.
How's the physical part of your relationship?
It has its moments.
Pretty awesome
We don't have a physical relationship yet.
It's dead as roadkill.
When you go out together, are you feeling proud that she's by your side?
Never really thought about it
Heck yeah
Yeah, I feel pretty good with her.
Not really

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What is it about her that first attracted you?
Her body
Everything
Her personality
Wish I could remember
Do you guys go out together a lot?
Every now and then
All the time
As much as we can
Nope
Has there ever been an occasion when you dressed alike?
That's not a thing I'd do.
Maaaaaybe
No, but I could see us doing that.
Please stop

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If you're planning on seeing a movie tonight but she's not feeling well, what are you going to do?
Find something else to do
Stay with her
See what I can do to make her feel better
Go see the movie with a friend
Do the two of you ever cook meals together?
It's usually just one of us doing the cooking.
All the time
We've tried it before and it was fun.
She cooks.
Where would be an ideal vacation destination for the two of you?
Las Vegas
Disneyworld
Paris
I dunno

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